Many a times we face situations where we really do not know what will happen. And most of the times, things will not be in our control. So the maximum we can do is be optimistic and not worry too much about it, because in either ways, you cant do much about it.
Most of the times, our actions or reactions in such occasions speak volumes about our attitude. Now its important to have a good body language as to not show people that you are tensed. Many people will gauge the mood of a person, within moments of seeing him. So a successful person is one who does not allow people to read about him. And this comes from a positive body language!!
Also the way you speak is going to speak volumes about your confidence. Just compare the following two statements!! "I hope you had a great time last weekend" and "I am sure you had a great time last weekend". The words of optimism in the second statement will in fact even help in lifting the confidence of the opposite person. That's not the only example. Lots of them can be given. The essence of the matter is, how much vibration you fill in your surrounding space; how much you attract people towards you, either by your qualities, or your habits or your charm or your humility or whatever, a major chunk of it depends on your body language. How you portray something is more important than what you portray!! Many people may not agree with me on this; I too agree its a hugely debatable point, so maybe we can discuss on it some other time!!
Till then bye, and keep thinking!!!
2 comments:
Dude, I agree with you in this matter. Body language is on thing that matters the most at times. In fact, body language is one of the criteria that is used by the interviewers to assess the candidate.
Good for people to know.
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